New Dad Gifts – Present Ideas For a New Dad

So you just heard the news that your friends or colleague just became a new dad and now you are now wondering what new dad gifts is perfect on their happiest day? You’re browsing around the mall looking for the perfect gift and after hours you just can’t decide what to give. Don’t fret, I’m here to help you guys to decide on what gift is the best for them. So basically, I would categorize what kind of father he is and then look for something within that category that would benefit him most. So I break them into a few ‘Father’ categories as follow:

Techy & Gadget Dads

iPhone 4 or 5 or 6 (depending on what year did you stumble upon this post.

iPad - Great device for him to play around with his kids.

GPS Device – For him to put into his car.

DSLR Digital camera – (Recommended) For them to capture the best moments of their newly born child. DSLR nowadays even have a High Definition video recording capability which is very good as it will eliminate the need to get a separate video camera.

Blu-Ray Player – For him to watch his favorite movies and also maybe some cartoons during his bonding time with his child.

Music Loving Dads

iPod - For him to store his favourite musics.

Guitar - For him to entertain himself and also his newborn.

Noise Canceling Headphones – For him to listen to his favorite tunes without any disturbance.

Amazon MP3 Gift Cards – For him to buy his favorite tunes.

Outdoor Lover Dads

Inflatable Boats – Great new dad gifts for dads who loves to go for fishing trips.

Fishing Rods – Duh! for catching fish.

Hiking Boots – For dad who loves to hike.

Portable Camping Tent – Family camping trip anyone?

GPS for Outdoor – For him to navigate in the outdoors.

Swiss Army Knife – Multi-function knives that will come handy at dire needs.

Sporty Dads

Scuba Diving Gear (If he loves to scuba.)

Golf Sets – Balls, Drivers, Irons, Putters? In addition to his current set.

Sport Shoes – Jogging/basketball/soccer.

Sport Attire set - Tops and bottoms.

His favourite sports team jersey – Manchester United/Rockets/Dolphins.

On the go toiletries set – For cleaning up after sport sessions.

Metrosexual Dads

Money Clip – great new dad gifts for those who like to avoid bulky pocket lines.

Cufflinks - Exclusive feeling accompanied by tailored shirt.

Custom-tailored Shirt – Added custom style with a perfect fit!

Spa gift certificate – Relaxations and stress release for dad after a long day.

Facial gift certificate – Who says facial is only for ladies only? Men also wants to look good!

Shoe Polishing Kit – Equipment and products he’ll need to buff his kicks to a high polish shine.

I hope that you now have a general idea on what would be the best presents for your new dad. There are tons of new dad gifts ideas out there but make sure they really suits your new dad’s interest for him to make the most of it! Happy Hunting!

Happiness! Future Or Present?

Are you living your life on the deferred plan? Some people are waiting for that special moment to be happy. Waiting for the perfect mate, waiting for the right job, waiting for the house to be paid off, waiting for the kids to finish college. If you keep waiting for the perfect moment to be happy, you will never be happy.

You have to be happy right now, in the present, then you will be happy in the future. Happiness is a mental habit, a mental attitude, and if it is not learned and practiced in the present, it will never be experienced.

Happiness cannot be waited upon until all problems are solved. Every time a problem is solved another one comes along. Life is a series of problems. If you are to be happy at all, you must be happy now, not because of.

Abraham Lincoln quoted: “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

We have let the little things make us unhappy for so long, it has become a habit to have frustrations, dissatisfaction and irritability. Things that make us that way are a blow to our self esteem, so we react as being unhappy.

You need to stop letting circumstances and other people dictate how you feel. Change your attitude, change your out look and change your feelings. Form the habit of reacting positively toward problems. Practice keeping a positive attitude. Continue to do this and you will be happy in the present and in the future.

How To Combat The Negative Effect Association Has On Negotiations

Have you ever considered how the associations you make about the other negotiator affects your mental state of mind during a negotiation? You more than likely realize that your brain is influenced by subliminal stimuli, based on the associations you make. The associations can be in the form of how you feel about the other negotiator, and/or the surroundings in which the negotiation occurs. Have you considered how to combat such associations when they don’t serve you?

This article delves into perception and security, as two aspects of how you can raise your awareness, per the associations you make during your negotiations.

Perception:

We give our power to those to whom we wish to ingratiate ourselves. We also do so to those that we perceive as having the ability to deliver us from one position to another. Thus, we view such deliverance as beneficial to our well-being.

Negotiation Tip: During your negotiation, you should question the amount of credibility and credence you give the other negotiator, based on how well your joint negotiation outcomes are aligned. Stated differently, to the degree that both of you are pursuing outcomes that are accepted as being mutually beneficial, you can lend more credence to actions that display that demeanor. To the degree your outcomes are adverse to one another, be cautious per the amount of power and control you give away.

When it comes to perception, you must understand preferably at a logical and emotional level, why you wish to subjugate your power to any individual, even more so during a negotiation. In giving your power, you reduce the focus that you might otherwise apply to offers and counter-offers. Suffice it to say, if you wish to relinquish your power do so as part of your negotiation plan. Then, make sure by doing so, you gain an improved position in the negotiation.

False Sense of Security:

There will be times when you’re in environments that will cause you to drop your guard. You may do so because the situation ‘feels right’ based on the accoutrements and trappings in the environment. Be aware when you experience such emotions and don’t fall prey to such surroundings. By maintaining your mental equilibrium, you’ll be more watchful for circumstances that are not beneficial to your negotiation position and expected outcome.

During your negotiations, you’ll be bombarded by ideas, offers, and counter-offers. Be sure to address each in a mindset that’s not clouded by undeserved attributes that don’t serve you. In essence, keep your wits about you and don’t be lulled into a false sense of security, due to the surroundings and goodwill that’s displayed. Be judicious, forthright, and very aware about your needs and why you’re negotiation. I’m not suggesting you be selfish, I’m suggesting you look out for yourself and don’t be overwhelmed by undeserving accoutrements to which you lend undue credibility. If you keep in mind the suggestions above, you’ll enhance your negotiation process. You’ll come out further ahead in your negotiations… and everything will be right with the world.

Remember, you’re always negotiating!